presence.to = Some(jid);
    presence.into()
}
pub fn make_allow_subscribe(jid: xmpp_parsers::Jid) -> Element {
    let mut presence = Presence::new(PresenceType::Subscribed);

                    }
                    let sub_from = match rdata.0 {
                        xmpp_parsers::roster::Subscription::From => true,
                        xmpp_parsers::roster::Subscription::Both => true,
                        _ => false,
                    };
                    if !sub_from {
                        info!("Not subscription from {}", xmpp_to);
                        self.state
                            .data
                            .send_queue
                            .push_back(stanzas::make_allow_subscribe(xmpp_to.clone()));